Tag: Self

  • Faith and the Overburdened Self: The Paradox of Self-Care

    The following first appeared in Public Square Magazine.  As a psychologist and psychotherapist who specializes in the relationship between psychology and faith, I regularly work with religious people who struggle with feelings of unworthiness and guilt. Some of them have developed symptoms of OCD/Scrupulosity because their thoughts and feelings convince

  • All of the Self You Can’t Leave Behind

    Then went one of the twelve, who was called Judas Iscariot,  to the chief priests and said to them: What will you give me, and I will deliver him unto you? But they appointed him thirty pieces of silver. And from thenceforth he sought opportunity to betray him (Matt 26:

  • The Drama of Being a Self

    Act I: The Lonely Question For Hans Urs von Balthasar, there is no question as important or as lonely as, “Who am I?” It is important because—and this will seem strange at first—it is impossible to answer. Impossible, at least, using all the things and meanings and people around us.